Mad Sweeney,
He was divorced, i don't think most divorces are happy occasions. He was very heavily in debt. Most people in debt are not happy. He used prostitutes and did not have a normal relationship with a woman. He was ill for 10 years. He retained alot of fluid and was bloated for about a year, he actually died once and was resusitated in the ambulance. He was refered to a psychiatrist. It doesn't strike me as happy, nor did it when we shared a beer in an empty pub before he was told he was dieing and he cried. So embrace your freedom with some limits. If you have limits you have mind control.